學不會

你的痛苦 我都心疼 想為你解決
擋開流言 緊握你手 想飛奔往前
我相信愛 能證明一切
夠真心 會超越時間
多付出 也多了喜悅 讓幸福蔓延

總是學不會 再聰明一點
記得自我保護 必要時候講些 善意謊言
總是學不會 真愛也有現實面
不是誰情願 就能夠解決

一次爭吵 一個心結 累積著改變
內心疏遠 足夠秒殺 外表多濃烈
才發現愛 不代表一切
再真心 也會被阻絕
這世界 天天有詭雷 隨時會爆裂

還是學不會 少浪漫一點
拼命著想的事 未必帶來感動 或被感謝
還是學不會 解釋我最傷 最累
痛死都不願 怪誰

把每段癡情苦戀 在此刻排列面前
也感覺 不埋怨 只懷念

總是學不會 再聰明一點
記得自我保護 必要時候講些 善意謊言
不是學不會 只是覺得愛 太美
值得去沉醉 流淚

No Excuses for the Forces of Love

If your life is not filled with everything you love, it doesn't mean you're not a good and loving person. The life purpose for each of us is to overcome negativity by choosing love. The problem is that most people love and then stop loving hundreds of times in a day. They don't give love long enough for the force of love to move all the good things into their life. Think about it: one moment you give love through a warm hug with loved one, and then you stop giving love within minutes when you get annoyed because you can't find your keys or you're delayed in traffic or you can't find a parking space. You give love when you laugh with a work colleague, and then stop when you get disappointed because the local lunch p;lace has run out of something you want. You give love as you look forward to the weekend, and then you stop when you receive your bills. And so it continues all through the day; you give love and you stop giving love, give love and stop giving love, give love and stop giving love, from one moment to the next.

You are either giving love and harnessing the force of love, or you're not. You can't harness the force of love with an excuse about why you didn't love. Excuses and justifying why you didn't love just add more negativity to your life. When you give an excuses as to why you didn't love, you're feeling the same negativity again, and so you're giving out more of it!

"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned."

If you get annoyed because there was a mix-up in an appointment, and you blame the other person for the mix-up, you are using blame as your excuses not to give love. But the law of attraction only receives what you are giving, so if you're giving blame, you must receive circumstances of blame back in your life. It won't necessarily come back to you from the person you were blaming , but most assuredly you will receive a circumstance of blame. There are no excuses for the force of love. You get what you give - period.

Take Your Feelings Off Automatic Pilot

Many people don't know about the power of good feelings, and so their feelings are reactions or responses to what happens to them. They have put their feelings on automatic pilot, instead of deliberately taking charge of them. When something good happens, they feel bad. They don't realize that their feelings are the cause of what is happening to them. As they react with negative feelings to something that has happened, they give out more negative feelings, and they receive back more negative circumstances. They become trapped in a cycle by their own feelings. Their life goes around and around in circles not getting anywhere, like a hamster on a wheel, because they don't realize that to change their life, they must change their feeling frequency!

"It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matter."

-Epictetus (Greek Philosopher)

If you don't have enough money, naturally you don't feel good about money, but the money in your life will never change while you don't feel good about it. If you give out negative feelings about money, you're on a negative circumstances such as big bills or things breaking down, which are all circumstances that drain you of money. When you react with negative feelings to a big bill, you give out more negative feelings about money, which bring even more negative circumstances to you that drain you of more money.

Every single second is an opportunity to change your life, because in any moment you can change the way you feel. It doesn't matter what you have felt before. It doesn't matter what mistakes you think you may have made. When you change the way you feel, you are on a different frequency, and the law of attraction responds instantaneously! When you change the way you feel, the past has gone! When you change the way you feel, your life changes.

"Do not waste one moment in regret, for to think feelingly of the mistakes of the past is to re-infect yourself."

If You Can Feel It, You Can Receive It

Everything in the universe is magnetic and everything has a magnetic frequency. Your feelings and thoughts have magnetic frequencies too. Good feelings mean you're on a positive frequency of love. Bad feelings mean you're on a negative frequency. Whatever you feel, whether good or bad, determines your frequency, and like a magnet you attract the people, events, and circumstances that are on the same frequency!

If you are feeling enthusiastic, your frequency of enthusiasm will attract enthusiastic people, situations, and events. If you are feeling fearful, your frequency of fear will attract fearful people, situations, and events to you. You are never left in any doubt about the frequency you're on because your frequency is exactly whatever you're feeling! You can change your frequency at any time by changing how you feel, and everything around you will change because you're on a new frequency.

You can take any situation in your life, and every possible outcome of that situation can happen. Any outcome can happen because you can have any feeling about the situation!

A relationship can be on a happy, joyful, exciting, satisfying, and every good feeling frequency. A relationship can also be on a boring, frustrating, worrisome, resentful, depressing, and every bad feeling frequency. Any outcome of that relationship can happen! And the way you feel determines exactly what will happen in that relationship. Whatever feeling you are giving about the relationship is exactly what you will receive back in the relationship. If you're feeling joyful about the relationship most of the time, you're giving love, and you must receive love and joy back through that relationship because that's the frequency you're on.

"A change of feeling is a change of destiny."

Look at the list of feeling frequencies and you'll see no matter what the subject in your life, there are many different feeling frequencies. And you determine the outcome of each subject through how you feel about it!

You can feel excited, happy, joyful, hopeful, worried, fearful, or depressed about money. You can feel ecstatic, passionate, blissful, discouraged, or anxious about your health. These are all different feeling frequencies, and whatever feeling frequency you're on is what you will receive.

You may want to travel, but if you feel disappointment that you don't have the money to travel, then on the subject of travel, you are feeling disappointment. Feeling disappointment means you're on the disappointment frequency, and you will continue to receive disappointing circumstances in which you cannot travel, until you change the way you feel. The force of love will move every circumstances for you to travel, but you have to be on the good feeling frequencies to receive it.

When you change the way you feel about a situation, you are giving a different feeling, you're on a different feeling frequency, and the situation must change to mirror your new frequency, If something negative has happened in your life, you can change it. It is never too late, because you can always change the way you feel. To receive what you would love, to change anything into what you would love, no matter what the subject, all it takes is changing the way you feel!

"If you want to find the secrets of the Universe, think in terms of energy, frequency, and vibration."

Relationships

What You Give to Others, You Give to Yourself

The most enlightment beings throughout history told us to love others. You were not told to love others just so that you would be a nice person. You were being given the secret to life! You were being given the law of attraction! When you love others, you will have an amazing life. When you love others, you will receive the life you deserve.

"Love your neighbour as yourself."

Give love to others through kindness, encouragement, support, gratitude, or any good feeling, and it comes back to you and multiplies itself, bringing love to every other area of your life, including your health, money, happiness, and carreer.

Give negativity to others, through criticism, anger, impatience, or any bad feeling, and you will receive that negativity back - guaranteed! And as the negativity comes back, it multiplies itself, attracting more negativity, which affects the rest of your life.

It's Not About the Other Person

You can tell in your relationships right now what you've been giving. If a current relationship is great, it means you are giving more love and gratitude than negativity. If a current relationship is difficult or challenging, it means you are inadvertently giving more negativity than love.

Some people think a relationship is either good or bad because of the other person, but life doesn't happen that way. You can't say to the force of love, "I will give love only when the other person gives it to me!" You can't receive anything in life unless you give it first! Whatever you give, you receive, so it's not about the other person at all: it's all about you! It's all about what you are giving and what you are feeling.

You can change any relationship right now by looking for the things you love, appreciate, and are grateful for in that person. When you make a deliberate effort to look for the things you lovemore than you notice negative things, a miracle will take place. It will appear to you as though something incredible has happened to the other person. But it's the force of love that is incredible, because it dissolves negativity, including negativity in relationships. All you have to do is harness the force of love by looking for the things you love in the person, and everything will change in the relationship!

Love Means Freedom

Now here is the tricky bit with giving love in relationships, and it's the one thing that has prevented many from receiving the life they deserve. It's only tricky because people have misunderstood what is best for another person is not giving love! Thinking you are right and another person is wrong is not giving love! Criticizing, blaming, complaining, nagging, or finding fault with another person is not giving love!

"Hate is not conquered by hate, Hate is conquered by love. This is a law eternal."

Giving love to other people does not mean you let people walk all over you or abuse you in any way, because that's not giving love either. Allowing another person to use you doesn't help that person, and it surely doesn't help you. Love is tough, and we learn and grow through its law, and as part of that learning we experience consequences. So it is not love to allow another person to use or abuse you. The answer is, get yourself onto the highest frequency of good feelings that you can, and the force of love will resolve the situation for you.

The Secret to Relationships

Life presents everything to you so that you can choose what you love. And part of the gift of life is that you are given all kinds of people, so you can choose what you love in those people and turn away from what you don't love. You are not meant to manufacture love for qualities in a person you don't love, but simply to turn away without giving them any feeling.

Turning away from what you don't love in someone means you're relaxed about it, and you know life is giving you a choice. It doesn't mean that you argue with them to prove they're wrong or you criticize or blame them, or that you want to change them because you think you're right. Because if you do any of these things, you are not giving love - big time!

"Your own soul is nourished when you are kind; it is destroyed when you are cruel."

When you are on a feeling frequency of love, then only people who are on the same feeling frequency as you are can come into your life.

You know some days you feel really happy, some days you feel irritated, and others you feel sad. You can be many different versions of yourself. A person ion a relationship with you can also be many versions, including happy, irritated, or sad. No doubt you will have seen them being many different versions, but every versions is still that person. When you're happy, then only the happy version of other people can come into your life. But you have to be happy to receive the happy versions of other people!

It doesn't mean you are responsible for other people's happiness, because everyone is responsible for their own lives and happiness. What it means is there's nothing else for you to do but to feel happy yourself, and the law of attraction will do the rest.

Live Your Life Right Now!

Give, and it will be returned to you. Give love and it shall return to you, give hatred and it will be return to you too. When we give out something, it will return to us more than what we have given. So, give more than 50 percents of love and you can change your life~

When you give love, it not only comes back to you as positive circumstances that you love, but as it comes back, it adds even more love and positivity to your life! The new positivity then attracts more positive things, adding even more love and positivity to your life, and so it continues. Everything is magnetic, and when something good comes to you, it magnetically attracts more good things.

You may have experienced this when you said you were having a "lucky streak" or you were "on a roll," when one good thing after another happened, and the good things just kept happening. The only reason those times occurred was because you had given out more love than negativity, and as the love returned to you, it added more love to your life, which then attracted even more good things.

You may also experienced the reverse happening when something when wrong, and then other things started going wrong one after the other.Those times happened because you gave more negativity than love, and as the negativity returned to you, it added more negativity to your life, which then attracted even more negative things.

To change your life, all you have to do is by giving more than 50 percent love through your good thoughts and good feelings. Once you giving more love than negativity, the love that comes back to you then multiplies itself by attracting more love. Suddenly you experience an acceleration and multiplication of good things!

When you wake up each morning, you are standing at the tipping point of your day. One way tips you into a wonderful day filled with good things, and the other way tips you into a day filled with problems. You are the one who determines what your day will be - by the way that you feel! Whatever you're feeling is what you're giving, and with certainty, that es exactly what you will receive back in your day, surrounding you wherever you go.

As you begin your day and you're feeling happy, while you keep feeling happy, your day will be great! But if you begin your day in a bad mood, and you do nothing to change it, your day will not be great at all.

One day of good feeling not only changes your day, it changes your tomorrow, and your life! Provided you maintain your good feelings and you go to sleep feeling good, you begin the next day with a momentum of good feelings. As you continue to feel good as much as you can, your good feelings continue to multiply by the law of attraction, and so it continues day after day, and your life gets better and better.

"Live today. Not yesterday. Not tomorrow. Just today. Inhabit your moments. Don't rent them out to tomorrow."

There are many people don't live for today. They are completely consumed with the future. It is what you feel today that matters, because it is the only thing that determines your future. Every day is an opportunity for a new life, because every single day you stand at the tipping point of your life. And on any one day you can change the future - through the way that you feel. When you tip the balance to good feelings, the force of love will change your life so fast that you will scarcely believe it.

Your Life - Your Story

You are the author for the story of your life, so what story that you are about to tell yourself? Do you believe there are things you can do and cannot do in this story? Is that the story you are telling about yourself? Because the story is not true.

Don't listen if someone says you are less than anyone else. Don't listen if someone says you are limited in any way. Don't listen if someone says you can't do what you love to do and earn a living from it. Don't listen if someone says you can't have what you love or do what you love or be what you love. If you believe it, you put limits on yourself, but more importantly, it is not true! There is not a single thing that is too good for you, or too good to be true!

The force of love says," Whatever you give, you receive back." Does that says you're not good enough? The force of love says, " Give love for whatever you want to be, do, or have and you will receive it." Does that say you're not good enough? YOU are WORTHY and DESERVING just as you are. your are good enough now. So, write your amazing story now without putting limitation to it, because there is nothing that you cannot do, or cannot have, or cannot be.

As you begin to pay attention to your own stories and what they say about you, you will enter into the exciting process of becoming, as you should be, the author of your own life, the creator of your own possibilities. ~Mandy Aftel

PETs (Personal Emotional Trainers)

The force of love presents you with a lots of Personal Emotional Trainers that disguised as everyday people that trains you to choose love.

Some people may be soft PETs because they don't push you very hard and they're so easy to love. Some people may be tought PETs because they push you to your limits, but these are the people who are making you stronger to choose love no matter what.

PETs can use all kinds of situations and tactics to challenge you, but remember that every challenge is presented so you will choose love and turn away from negativity and blame. Some trainers may challenge you to judge them or others, but don't fall for that TRAP.

JUDGEMENT is negative, so if you can't love the good in someone or something, simply just turn away~

Some trainers may test you by provoking you to feel revenge, anger, or hatred. Turn away by looking for the things you love in life. Some trainers may even hit you with guilt, feelings of unworthiness, or fear. Don't fall for any of them, because negativity of any kind is not love.

Imagine that the people in your life as your Personal Emotional Trainers, it will help you with any difficult relationships. It's the tough trainers who make you stronger and determined to choose love no matter what, but they're also giving you a message. They're telling you that you've gotten yourself onto a negative feeling frequency - and you need to feel better to move off it! No one can come to your life and affect you negatively, unless you are already on the same negative feeling frequency. If you're on a feeling frequency of love, it won't matter how tough of negative someone is, they will not and cannot affect you!

Each person is just doing their job, just as you are doing your job of being a Personal Emotional Trainer to others. There are no enemies, there are only some great PETs, and some tough PETs who are making you Great!

For "You" =)

I'm sorry that i din't properly say sorry to you... If u have, by any chance to look at my blog again, i want to say that i am really sorry for what i have done to us.

But above of all, i wanted to say thank you for everything that we've been go through. Thanks for the sushi you made, thanks for the warms of your hug, thanks for the smile of your face, thanks for holding my hands even though i sweat so much... haha...there are many more that i have to thank you for.

Sorry that i have mess up this relationship, maybe we're just not mean to be together. But still, i wish you will have a great life ahead of you =).

May All The Best and Good Things Appears In Your Life My Friend. =)

❤她~

你不知道, 你已经改变了我的世界... 我以前活在寂寞的世界里, 只希望有一天, 有人能带我离开着孤单的世界... 终于, 我看见了你的手, 紧紧得拉着我的手...带我离开去一个很远很远的新地方...

你不知道, 拥有你, 我有多开心... 我开心到读信息都会笑... 朋友们看着我对电话傻笑也笑我了...

你不知道, 你已经给我了很多很多的幸福... 有你这一个女友, 我已经心满意住了...

你不知道, 我是真的爱你了... 虽然我们才当了不久男女朋友, 虽然我们没机会相处很久, 可是... 我是真的付出我的真心...

你不知道, 我说的每一句"我爱你"是从我的真心说出来的... 也许, 你觉得每一个"我爱你"都是甜语... 其实,我是真的说出我的真心话...

宝贝~ 我会努力好好去爱你的...

这首歌, 是我心里想要说给你的... ^^

宝贝...我爱你~

missing u^^.. by tata

体谅... by tata

很多时候, 伤心.. 失意是很正常的...可是, 今天发生的事让我感到很震惊, XX竟然很公然地在fb骂我, 虽然已经不是头一次被骂, 不过始终心有余悸, 经过上一次YY事件, 心情要蛮久才能平复... 早上看到XX post的status已经够难受了, 我拼命地催眠自己不要对号入座, 心情才稍稍好转...不过, 结束补习后回到家又去开fb, 这时才知道并没有表错情, 写的长篇大论还不是指我... 因为他好明显地在comment里说了是昨晚的事, 不过一直到我念到....act shy shy, want vomit, noob chin chin..而且讲的人是自己, 我当下的感受可想而知....当然不好受, 因为毕竟是朋友一场.... 本来还真的会主动找他道个歉之类的, 毕竟我知道我男人不想我们搞到如斯田地....不过, 老娘现在火大了, 觉得既然是朋友, 做么要酱重伤我...况且昨晚我必须澄清我假害羞只是闹着玩, 或许我样子就是酱惹你讨厌, 不过酱就碍到你哦....奇怪!! 到后来并不是我不要讲, 而是我一直害怕..在意你们怎样看我, 分手不久就有新的, 我真的怕你们不能接受...加上是你自己说算, 不想知道...真的不明白, 如果作为朋友的有什么不能当面讲清楚, 问清楚....在后面骂我只会使我更难受.... 或许这一切也怨不得人, 我不可能要求所有人都喜欢, 接受我, 不过我真的不想连自己的朋友都酱反感自己...我一再质疑自己的人格, 真的酱糟糕？



p/s: 谢谢元还一度地要帮我跟XX解释...(: 不过, 我觉得真的没必要, 如果要解释那个人也是我....当上了一堂课吧, 课名会是'体谅'........

我...还是我

每次每次都是这样子...当看到自己喜欢的人在面前就失去胆量,不敢做心理想要做的事,不敢说心理想说的话...就这样慢慢看她离开...

你可以说我胆小,没用...其实我不是怕被拒绝,而是怕拒绝后之前所有的朋友关系也都消失,而慢慢变成了陌生人...

我知道不是每个告白都会失败的...可是...因为以前曾经对一个我很喜欢,很爱的人告白过...而...失败了...当时...我是真的很后悔...可惜...后悔也没用了...从那一天起...我再也没有那么大的胆量~哈哈...

很多人说,要追一个人是很容易的...可是我就偏偏觉得一点都不容易...可能我迟钝吧...haiz~...><~

放假也快完了...想回去之前玩到够够,不要再想这样多了~哈哈xD...

成熟不是心变老，而是眼泪在眼里打转却还保持微笑。

1. 人生就像一杯茶，不会苦一辈子，但总会苦一阵子。

2. 低头要有勇气，抬头要有底气。

3. 傻与不傻，要看你会不会装傻。

4. 幸福是可以通过学习来获得的，尽管它不是我们的母语。

5. 不要见一个爱一个，爱的太多，你的爱就要贬值。

6. 想完全了解一个男人，最好别做他的恋人，而做他的朋友。

7. 朋友就是把你看透了，还能喜欢你的人。

8. 当我们搬开别人架下的绊脚石时，也许恰恰是在为自己铺路。

9. 如果说我懂的道理比别人多一点，那是因为我犯的错误比别人多一点。

10. 不是每句“对不起”，都能换来“没关系”。

11. 世界上只有想不通的人，没有走不通的路。

12. 地球是运动的，一个人不会永远处在倒霉的位置。

13. 走的最急的是最美的景色，伤的最深的是最真的感情。

14. 在事实面前，我们的想象力越发达，后果就越不堪设想。

15. 当别人开始说你是疯子的时候，你离成功就不远了 ……

16. 你永远看不见我眼里的泪，因为你不在时我才会哭泣。

17. 时间就像一张网，你撒在哪里，你的收获就在哪里。

18. 如果我能够看到自己的背影，我想它一定很忧伤，因为我把快乐都留在了前面。

19. 理想和现实总是有差距的，幸好还有差距，不然，谁还稀罕理想？

20. 任何人都可以变得狠毒，只要你尝试过嫉妒。

21. 爱情就像攥在手里的沙子，攥的越紧，流失的越快。

22. 成熟不是心变老，而是眼泪在眼里打转却还保持微笑。

23. 做与不做的最大区别是：后者拥有对前者的评论权。

24. 人，长得漂亮不如活的漂亮。

25.

有些事，明知是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心..

有些人，明知是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没有结局..

有时候，明知没路了，却还在前进，因为习惯了..

26. 同样的一瓶饮料，便利店里 2 块钱，五星饭店里 60 块，

很多的时候，一个人的价值取决于所在的位置..

27. 每个人出生的时候都是原创，可悲的是很多人渐渐都成了盗版。

28. 真坏人并不可怕，可怕的是假好人。

29. 浪漫是一袭美丽的晚礼服，但你不能一天到晚都穿着它。

30. 把一切平凡的事做好即不平凡，把一切简单的事做好即不简单。

31. 把不忙不闲的工作做的出色，把不咸不淡的生活过得精彩。

32. 情侣间最矛盾的地方就是幻想彼此的未来，却惦记着对方的过去。

33.

忙碌是一种幸福，让我们没时间体会痛苦..

奔波是一种快乐，让我们真实地感受生活..

疲惫是一种享受，让我们无暇空虚..

34. 理想很丰满，现实很骨感。

35. 爱情永远比婚姻圣洁，婚姻永远比爱情实惠。

36. 探索的旅程不在于发现新大陆，而在于培养新视角。

37.

一个人能走多远，要看他有谁同行..

一个人有多优秀，要看他有谁指点..

一个人有多成功，要看他有谁相伴..

38. 叹气是最浪费时间的事情，哭泣是最浪费力气的行径。

39. 不是人人都能活的低调，可以低调的基础是随时都能高调。

40. 谈恋爱就像剥洋葱，总有一层会让你流泪。

41. 年轻时候，拍下许多照片，摆在客厅给别人看；等到老了，才明白照片是拍给自己看的。

42. 就算不快乐也不要皱眉，因为你永远不知道谁会爱上你的笑容。

43. 当大部分人都在关注你飞的高不高时，只有少部分人关心你飞的累不累，这就是友情。

44. 绝口不提不是因为忘记，而是因为铭记。

45. 让未来到来，让过去过去。

46. 微小的幸福就在身边，容易满足就是天堂。

47. 成功有个副作用，就是以为过去的做法同样适应于将来。

48. 天使之所以会飞，是因为她们把自己看得很轻..

49. 试金可以用火，试女人可以用金，试男人可以用女人。

50.

喜欢一个人，就是在一起很开心..

爱一个人，就是即使不开心，也想在一起..

51. 幽默就是一个人想哭的时候还有笑的兴致。

52.

咖啡苦与甜，不在于怎么搅拌，而在于是否放糖..

一段伤痛，不在于怎么忘记，而在于是否有勇气重新开始..

53. 人之所以活得累，是因为放不下架子，撕不开面子，解不开情节。

54. 漂亮只能为别人提供眼福，却不一定换到幸福。

55. 美丽让男人停下，智慧让男人留下。

56. 人生最精彩的不是实现梦想的瞬间，而是坚持梦想的过程。

57. 忍无可忍，就重新再忍。

58. 付出真心，才会得到真心，却可能伤的彻底；保持距离，才能保护自己，却注定永远寂寞。

59. 废话是人际关系的第一句。

60. 有时候，不是对方不在乎你，而是你把对方看的太重。

心情...

回到美里都已经10几天, 说真的...还挺开心的. 开心因为能看到自己喜欢的人和朋友,也没有读书的烦恼...哈哈^^

在我刚回来的时,就有很多的节目了...哈哈..可以说每天都有...那几天真的是很开心xD

最近因为开学了,很多朋友都会去上课了所以有时间写blog了..哈哈...

学校已经开始有3个sem了,变到一年只有一次放假...

想到放假还剩下这短短的时间,多希望时间慢慢的转...哈哈xD