If your life is not filled with everything you love, it doesn't mean you're not a good and loving person. The life purpose for each of us is to overcome negativity by choosing love. The problem is that most people love and then stop loving hundreds of times in a day. They don't give love long enough for the force of love to move all the good things into their life. Think about it: one moment you give love through a warm hug with loved one, and then you stop giving love within minutes when you get annoyed because you can't find your keys or you're delayed in traffic or you can't find a parking space. You give love when you laugh with a work colleague, and then stop when you get disappointed because the local lunch p;lace has run out of something you want. You give love as you look forward to the weekend, and then you stop when you receive your bills. And so it continues all through the day; you give love and you stop giving love, give love and stop giving love, give love and stop giving love, from one moment to the next.
You are either giving love and harnessing the force of love, or you're not. You can't harness the force of love with an excuse about why you didn't love. Excuses and justifying why you didn't love just add more negativity to your life. When you give an excuses as to why you didn't love, you're feeling the same negativity again, and so you're giving out more of it!
"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned."
If you get annoyed because there was a mix-up in an appointment, and you blame the other person for the mix-up, you are using blame as your excuses not to give love. But the law of attraction only receives what you are giving, so if you're giving blame, you must receive circumstances of blame back in your life. It won't necessarily come back to you from the person you were blaming , but most assuredly you will receive a circumstance of blame. There are no excuses for the force of love. You get what you give - period.
